Christian Marriage
This christian marriage page is for helping christian married couples with biblical christian marriage advice and Godly counseling. If christian marriage advice is what you are looking for then look no further. All of your christian marriage advice and questions can be answered right from our Christian Marriage Advice Page. If you have any specific christian marriage advice questions your can send us a message using our Get Advice Form.
Every Christian Marriage Needs
Commitment: Is the fuel of a christian marriage. Commitment is the bond that makes it possible for the marriage to grow and get to where it needs to be.
Communication: Is the oil in a christian marriage. Communication is what makes a marriage work smoothly. That means a smaller amount of adversity or disagreement.
Caring: Is the tune-up. Caring is what will gives your christian marriage the extra boost it needs to get to the next level. How do you get someone to care you ask? Love. Love never fails. It can be difficult at times but is well worth the rewords it brings. Loving someone unconditionally without them loving you back is literally impossible by yourself. That is why we need to use God's Love.
Commission: Is like a car's navigational system. The Commission of a christian marriage is the goal of your marriage as a whole. Both the husband and wife must play a part in the commission as a team.
Take a look at these christian marriage charts and think on how they may relate to your own marriage. How are your reacting toward on another? What are the intentions of your hearts? Selflessness is key in a christian marriage. (These are sample charts of the Charts published by Love and Respect Ministries.) There Web Site: www.loveandrespect.com
Communication: Is the oil in a christian marriage. Communication is what makes a marriage work smoothly. That means a smaller amount of adversity or disagreement.
Caring: Is the tune-up. Caring is what will gives your christian marriage the extra boost it needs to get to the next level. How do you get someone to care you ask? Love. Love never fails. It can be difficult at times but is well worth the rewords it brings. Loving someone unconditionally without them loving you back is literally impossible by yourself. That is why we need to use God's Love.
Commission: Is like a car's navigational system. The Commission of a christian marriage is the goal of your marriage as a whole. Both the husband and wife must play a part in the commission as a team.
Take a look at these christian marriage charts and think on how they may relate to your own marriage. How are your reacting toward on another? What are the intentions of your hearts? Selflessness is key in a christian marriage. (These are sample charts of the Charts published by Love and Respect Ministries.) There Web Site: www.loveandrespect.com
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To find out how to spell Love and Respect to your spouse visit our Relationship Advice page.
Husbands Love Your Wives
Husbands love your wife like Christ Loved the church and gave Himself for it. Loving your wife is not just allowing her to do whatever she wants to. It is not controlling her either. The best way to love someone is to lead them in the way that they should go. Sacrifice is a big part of this type of leadership. Doing not necessarily what you want to do but what needs to be done. Christ prayed to the Father a few times asking that He be freed from ever having to die on the cross. He knew that it was the will of God and it had to be done. Not his will but Gods will. Obedience leads to blessing. Disobedience and selfishness leads to destruction.
Loving your wife is something that may be a little difficult at times but it is always rewarding. A woman wants love, affection, and your attention, like you want their respect and submission. You treat a woman right with the love and affection she desires then she will blossom into a beautiful rose. You take that away from her and she will wilt and become thorny. |
Wives Submit to your HusbandsWives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
Wow what a powerful statement. Submitting yourself to your husband is not an easy task, but treating your husband in this manner is like making the perfect meal. If you submit and honor your husband continually you get a pretty nice looking, smelling, and eatable dish. On the other had if you decide to throw in a little badgering, arguing, nagging, and disregard then the meal or your husband ends up looking a bit rough, a little stinky, and a lot less eatable. |
Biblical Scripture
(Definition of Love) Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is
not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own
way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in
unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes
all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.
But where there are prophecies, they will be done away with. Where
there are various languages, they will cease. Where there is knowledge,
it will be done away with. (1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB)
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. (Colossians 3:18-21 KJV)
Other good Scriptures on Biblical Christian marriage.
1 Peter Ch 3
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. (Colossians 3:18-21 KJV)
Other good Scriptures on Biblical Christian marriage.
1 Peter Ch 3
Resolving Conflict
Christian marriages often have conflict. Conflict is what the devil uses to separate and tear down marriages. A christian marriage is a bond created by God and is meant to last a life time.
Matthew 19:6 (KJV) Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
The devil wants to break it in two and usually tries to break the man down first in the any marriage weather it is a christian marriage or not because the man is suppose to be the head of the household. If the devil can destroy or break the man down then he can bring down the whole house. For all men we encourage you to stay strong in the Lord and keep true to your vows. Loving your wives is one of the most difficult things you will experience at times. Just know that she is precious just as the church is to Jesus Christ and that he has never stopped loving the church so how can we ever stop loving our wives.
The first step to resolving conflict is to look at your personal intentions of your heart and of your partners. Are the fruits of the spirit there or do you see selfishness, fear, anger, and or other things that should not be. How to change that is to start with love. Love will heal all things. You need to have that spirit of forgiveness, kindness, patience, and long suffering. Not only you need this but your partner will need them as well. Having these fruits built up in you will allow for the energy cycle to take affect. If you find that you or your partner are not showing these things you will find that the wise will hold their tongue, and a fool will speak foully.
Matthew 19:6 (KJV) Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
The devil wants to break it in two and usually tries to break the man down first in the any marriage weather it is a christian marriage or not because the man is suppose to be the head of the household. If the devil can destroy or break the man down then he can bring down the whole house. For all men we encourage you to stay strong in the Lord and keep true to your vows. Loving your wives is one of the most difficult things you will experience at times. Just know that she is precious just as the church is to Jesus Christ and that he has never stopped loving the church so how can we ever stop loving our wives.
The first step to resolving conflict is to look at your personal intentions of your heart and of your partners. Are the fruits of the spirit there or do you see selfishness, fear, anger, and or other things that should not be. How to change that is to start with love. Love will heal all things. You need to have that spirit of forgiveness, kindness, patience, and long suffering. Not only you need this but your partner will need them as well. Having these fruits built up in you will allow for the energy cycle to take affect. If you find that you or your partner are not showing these things you will find that the wise will hold their tongue, and a fool will speak foully.
Forgiveness
Forgiveness is one of the most useful tools we have to really show the love of God in our lives. That is why the more we are able to forgive the more Gods love can really shine through us. God's love is powerful as you look at Jesus on the Cross saying "Father forgive them for they know not what they do."
Forgiveness like this is what we need to strive for. In our marriage and our family we are hurt by the ones closest to us because we care for them and yet the do wrong against us. Not because they want to but because of this; "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, and against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places." ( Ephesians 6: 12 NKJV)
Forgiveness like this is what we need to strive for. In our marriage and our family we are hurt by the ones closest to us because we care for them and yet the do wrong against us. Not because they want to but because of this; "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, and against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places." ( Ephesians 6: 12 NKJV)
